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10 important things all women need in a relationship

June 10th, 2021

Everything is better when you are in love. The world feels exciting, colors are brighter, and there is one person that you just can’t stop thinking about. However, are they the right person for you?

This list will give you some ideas of things that you should be looking for in a perfect relationship.

Guys, if you are reading this, make sure to take notes! These are the 10 crucial things that every woman needs.

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1. To feel special.

When your man looks at you, you want to feel like you are the most important person in the world to him. You don’t want to be treated like just another friend or acquaintance. You deserve a guy that proves to you how special you are to him every day with both his actions and words.

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2. Regular pampering.

It might sound cliche, but every woman enjoys being pampered occasionally. It doesn’t have to be some expensive trip or gift either. After a hard day at work, imagine coming home to your loved one preparing you a freshly cooked meal with all of the details planned out for a romantic night together.

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3. To be able to be yourself.

If you feel like you are putting on an act trying to be the person your partner wants you to be, then what’s the point? You should always feel like you are able to be yourself around them. You want them to love you for who you truly are and everything that entails.

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4. To feel appreciated.

It’s all too easy for people to take each other for granted in a relationship. However, that’s pretty much the last thing that a woman wants! Even a simple “I miss you already!” text after a date is a small recognition of appreciation that can mean a lot. Saying “Good night”, “I love you”, and greeting each other with a big hug is always helpful as well.

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5. Two-way communication.

You need someone who will listen to you intently and actually hear what you are saying. Communication issues are one of the biggest reasons why relationships fail. The best relationship is one where you and your man can talk for hours and hours and never run out of things to say. It’s like you are in your own little bubble together.

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6. A lifelong friendship.

Women in a good relationship often say that their partner is like their best friend. You want someone who you can spend time doing all of the things you enjoy with. You want someone who cares about you and someone who you can rely on to always be there for you.

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7. Becoming better together.

You and your partner should complement each other. The sum of the parts is greater than the whole, so they say. In the perfect relationship, you both help each other to be your best selves. It’s about growing together and evolving over time.

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8. Freedom is important.

You should never feel trapped and like you aren’t allowed to do things. Your guy should let you go and hang out with your girlfriends without feeling threatened. It’s about trusting each other enough to let the other person wander out into the world, unsupervised. You can’t literally be together 24/7.

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9. Honesty.

There is nothing worse than being lied to. Even being told half-truths is frustrating. It all ties back into the whole communication thing. You can’t have open and positive communication in a relationship without honesty.

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10. Love, love, love!

This is the most important item on our entire list. If you are not receiving love in your relationship, you are in the wrong relationship. Every woman deserves to feel loved! When it is pure and real, it’s easy to tell. Love is an incredible emotion that makes everything in life better.

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In a perfect relationship, these are the 10 things that all women need and deserve. At the end of the day though, we mainly just want someone important in our lives who cares about us.

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Sources: Herway, Bustle